Friday, May 30, 2008
I want to learn to play guitar. But, I want to be able to play LIKE THIS. The technical skill and versatility of this band is awesome to me. Some of their songs make me want to weep. Some make me want to run. Some make me want to dance and jump and thrash. Some make me want to move in slow motion and sweat and whisper. All of their music, to me, is an inspiration. I usually listen to Opeth when I am cleaning house.And also when i am writing. Really. So, I thought I would take my last couple of minutes before bed to give you all a surprise posting of some great music. Both videos are long, both are great and I love both. But, they are very different! LOL
This video is 9 minutes long. Worth a listen. One of my favorite songs. Don't forget to turn off the music on the sidebar! Lyrics are below the video. The music in this one is fabulous. I listen to this album all the time.
Windowpane
Blank face in the windowpane
Made clear in seconds of light
Disappears and returns again
Counting hours, searching the night
Might be waiting for someone
Might be there for us to see
Might be in need of talking
Might be staring directly at me
Inside plays a lullaby
Slurred voice over children cries
On the inside
Haunting loneliness in the eye
Skin covering secret scars
His hand is waving a goodbye
There's no response or action returned
There is deep prejudice in me
Outshines all reasons inside
Given dreams all ridden with pain
And projected unto the lost
ANd the other side of Opeth.... another long one. And if you are fundamentally opposed to metal music... skip this one. I am always amazed and in awe that this is the same band and the exact same singer! Again, lyrics are below the video.
The Master's Apprentice
There is a voice calling for me
There is a light coming down on me
There is a doubt that is clearing
There is a day that is dawning
There is a wound that is healing
There is a season waiting for me
There is a road that is turning
There is a fire still burning
A sickness in me
Constant pace towards the end
The need is stronger
This time the need is deeper
There is a peace I am searching
There is a freedom I'm depending on
There is a pain that's never ending
There is a rain falling only on me
There is a dream I am living
There is a life I'm dreaming of
There is a death I'm awaiting
There is a home I am deserting
I hold my breath in wait
Only moments remain
Movement for departed hope
Effect for absent friends
Sever the faith from my body
Leave me begging for more
Take what I have and deliver me
Into everlasting sleep
Soothing trance
Colours fade
And disappear
Ethereal light
Showing me what I can do without
In a motionless scene
There is only me
I take what I can
Controlling you to get ahead
Fading away
And leaving
Long for sleep
Closer now
Lead the way into death
Every wretched dream
I've left behind
Every waking hour
I lie in wait
Sucked inside by will
Gone into the flood
All my questions unfurled
As I was put to the test
Once I'm below there's no turning back
repeat
Plunging into the deepest void
Departed shell left drained behind
Pacing roads unknown
Searching for a new home
Desert in my eye
Barren lands inside
So, tell me..... what do YOU think?
Did you enjoy either song? Both?
Do you see what I mean about the opposing sides of this band? Did you see what an amazing singer that man is? Wow.
Anyway. I am heading to bed to sleep the exhausted sleep of the finally packed and ready to go to FL mom. Catcha on the flip side.
Chicken With No Head
I will try to check in part way through the week. Everybody take care of yourselves. No big drama until I get back to read about it! LOL LOL LOL
CVS Slump
Products Purchased
8 packs Playskool wipes
4 Sobe Life Waters
3 Revlon Classic Enamel (they were out of the Colors kind)
4 packs Playskool Diapers
4 Rimmel Mascaras (BOGO)
2 Excedrin 24 ct
2 Crest + Scope Toothpastes
1 Tums for Kids
Total Worth (after sales and BOGO)= $101.86
6 transactions
used a total of $72 in coupons and ECBs.
Spent $32.72 out of pocket.
Went home with 5 ECBs.
Not great. I had issues with some of my coupons and trying to work the scenarios .... was trying this week. I have too much on my mind! I still did pretty well, I think.
Sorry I don't have time to break it all down for you. I am on my way out of town for a week of sun and fun in FL. We are going to visit family and I will probably not get a chance to post while I am there.
I am planning to hit up CVS and Publix while I am in FL to see what kind of deals I can find! I will post when I get back.
For now, go check out the other CVS Superstars at The Centisible Sawyer.
Cat Food for a Quarter
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Wacky Walgreens
Click HERE to get the coupon! This is also detailed on The Centsible Sawyer and I found out about it from an online group that I am part of....
MAY Free After Rebate Items
Oral-B CrossAction Toothbrush - $4.99
Use $1/1 coupon from 4/6 insert
Free plus $1 overage after rebate
Orajel Kids Plaque Revealing Rinse - $5.79
Use $1/1 coupon from 1/6 SmartSource insert
Free plus $1 overage after rebate
Nexcare 3M Cold Sore Lip Treatment - $8.99
Use $1/1 coupon from 4/6 RedPlum
Free plus $1 overage after rebate
Walgreens Maxi Pads 12 or 24 pack - $1.99
Free after rebate
EARinse with SinoMarin Ear Cleansing Spray - $9.99
Free after rebate
Walgreens Standard Light Bulbs - $1.69
Free after rebate
Kickers Energy Spray - $3.29
Free after rebate
JUNE Free After Rebate Items
Multi-Betic Advanced Diabetic Multi-Vitamins, 60 pack -$9.99
Walgreens Gluco Shot, 2 oz. -$1.99
Walgreens Calcium Creamies, 75ct. -$5.99
Walgreens Water Filtration Replacement Cartridge -$6.99
Theragran-M Premier with Vitamin D or Premier 50 Plus, 130 ct. $4.99
Ecotrin Low Strength Tablets, 45 ct. up to $2.00
Now, by purchasing FAR items and using coupons, you can use the 10/30 and get a great savings AND get your rebates! Sounds like a plan to me.
Even in the midst of planning for my trip I may have to head to Walgreens tomorrow!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Frugality On Vacation
Any ideas on saving money in other ways while on the road? We have a budget and I plan to stick to it. But, it would be great to come back with some leftover money to apply to the bills!
In reality, knowing my husband, we will be spending as much as I allow him to spend. He is badly craving food from different restaurants that we do not have here in MS. And he also really really wants to go grocery shopping at some of the specialty stores that we cannot find in this area.
But... if we are buying groceries.... I can count that towards my grocery budget! LOL
And... we are leaving the teenager in FL for the summer! So, that 's a savings on food and miscellaneous for the rest of the summer.
All in all, it is shaping up to be a great week ahead. I will post my CVS deals as soon as I get a chance. Then, I will probably be out of touch for a week or so. I plan to hit CVS and maybe Publix while I am in FL to see if I can get some good deals. I will keep track and let y'all know how I do!
Any ideas for vacation frugality are welcome!
Vitamin Love
I am taking the following supplements every day:
Fish Oil 1000 mg (For cardio health)
Hawthorne Berries 565 mg 3 x daily (For a healthy heart)
Acidophilus with Bifidus 3 x daily (For digestion)
Multi Vitamin
Sublingual B-complex (For energy)
Does anyone have any suggestions of other supplements that I could take to help with the HBP? Or, that would just be a good idea now that I am over 30 and not doing so hot health wise?
Also.... The Boy was throwing a fit because he did not want what I had given him for breakfast and I got very frustrated. I hollered at him and told him he needed to TELL me what he wanted! So.... he sighed really big and looked me int he eyes and said "Grits" as clear as day. Ha!
Yes, he got grits for breakfast! LOL Any new word is cause for celebration here!
Preparations
The fact that DH actually gets a week off of work is amazing! I just can't wait to be in FL and have someone help watch the kids so I can sleep in! And go out..... with no friends or family in this area and no money for babysitters, we have not been out without the kids since last November when our moms watched the kids! I am ready for a break. Love the kids but.....
I will be taking plenty of pics and video while we are in FL. Both at Busch Gardens and just around. It will be interesting to see how the kids do in different surroundings. We have not been to visit since last year. A year can make a lot of difference for kids!
Anyway, I am busy busy busy today. I will, hopefully, be back later with another post but for now.... hehe... wish me luck cleaning! LOL
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
New Video Camera!
Soon.....
Monday, May 26, 2008
Questions Deserve Answers....
Updated Scenarios!
#1
1 Playskool diaper @ 10.99
1 Playskool Wipe @ 2.50
I revlon Nail Enamel @ 3.99
Use 2/1 Revlon
Use 1/1 wipes
Use 2/1 diapers
Use 3/15 CVS
Total should be 9.48 plus tax.
Use 5 ECB and pay 4.48 plus tax oop.
Get back 3 ECB from Revlon. Total towards Playskool deal is 13.49.
#2
1 Playskool diaper @ 10.99
1 Playskool wipe @ 2.50
1 Revlon Nail Enamel @ 3.99
Use 2/1 Revlon
Use 2/1 Diapers
Use 1/1 Wipes
Use 3/15 CVS
Total should be 9.48 plus tax.
Use 3 ECB and pay 6.48 plus tax oop.
Get 8 ECB from Revlon and Playskool. Total towards second Playskool deal is 6.98.
#3
2 Playskool Wipes @ 2/5
1 Playskool diaper @ 10.99
Use 2/1 diapers
Use 1/1 Wipes
Use 3/15 CVS
Total should be 9.99 plus tax.
Use 8 ECB and pay 1.99 plus tax oop.
Get 5 ECB. Total towards 3rd Playskool deal is 2.94.
#4
Same as #3
But, use 5 ECB and get 0 ECB.
Total towards 3rd Playskool deal is now 18.93.
So far, I have purchased all 4 diapers I wanted and 6 of the 8 wipes.
#5
1 Revlon color enamel @ 3.99
4 Playskool wipes @ 2/5
1 filler soda @ more than $1
Use 1/1 Playskool
Use 3/15 CVS
Total should be approximately 12 plus tax.
Use 10 ECB and pay $2 plus tax oop.
Get back 8 ECB from Revlon and Playskool.
TOTALS
Product Totals = $82.94 approx.
Coupon Totals = $32
ECBs Spent = 31
OOP Spent = 19.94 plus tax
ECBs Taken Home = 8
So, with this scenario I end up with about $9 more product, use the same total amount of coupons, spend 3 more ECBs, and spend about $5 or $6 more oop. And bring home the same 8 ECBs at the end of the day. It works out about the same in the end. And I bring home more butt wipes and covers!
Hopefully, these scenarios will work for me. Check out some other scenarios at The Centsible Sawyer!
CVS Scenarios 5/25 - 5/31
There is not much I am interested in this week other than diapers and wipes.... but that's ok! I can ALWAYS use a good deal on diapers and wipes. So, my scenarios for this week are:
#1
8 packs Playskool Cottony Cloths @ 2/$5
Use 8 $1/1 coupons
Use $3/15 CVS coupon
Total should then be $9 plus tax.
Use a $5 ECB from last week and pay $4 plus tax oop.
Get back $5 ECB.
#2
2 packs Playskool Diapers @ 10.99 each
Use 2 $2/1 coupons
Use $3/15 CVS coupon
Total should be $14.98 plus tax.
Use $15 ECBs and pay only tax oop.
Get back 5 ECBs.
#3
1 Revlon Nail Enamel @ 3.99
1 Playskool Diaper @ 10.99
1 Filler Candybar @ .88
Use $2/1 Revlon coupon
Use $2/1 Playskool Coupon
Use $3/15 CVS coupon
Total should now be $8.86 plus tax.
Use $5 ECB and pay 3.86 plus tax oop.
Get back 3 ECB.
#4
Same as #3 but pay with the 3 ECB and 5.86 plus tax oop.
Get back 8 ECB.
Totals:
Product totals = $73.70 plus tax
Coupon Totals = $32
ECBs Spent = $28
OOP Spent = Approx. $14 plus tax.
Take Home ECBs = $8
Not a big money earner but it will definitley get me the stash of diapers and wipes I need!
I plan on heading in today, as soon as I can.
Check out other scenarios at The Centisible Sawyer and let me know if you have located any other great deals this week at CVS!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Menu Week of 5/26-5/30
Monday - Grilled London Broil, Au Gratin Potatoes, Frenched Green Beans, Rolls
Tuesday - Leftovers
Wednesday - Fried Chicken Breast, Mashed Potatoes, Corn
Thursday - Pork Roast, Wild Rice, Gravy, Peas
Friday - Leftovers! Clean it all up before we leave!
So, that's it! I have to make sure that all of the food is eaten before we leave as we will be gone a whole week.
Breakfasts will be the same as always except that DH is home on Monday for the holiday and will be making homemade waffles and sausage! Lunches are sandwiches, salads or leftovers. The kids have a freezer full of chicken nuggets that I got a great deal on at Wally World and we always have plenty of pb&j.
This week I am not trying any new recipes and am only doing fairly easy dishes. NEXT week I will not be cooking at all! The following week.... I am looking for some new chicken recipes. And some good casserole and crock pot recipes. The plan is that I will do one crock pot meal each week, one casserole, one new recipe and maybe do one meatless meal each week. I am trying to find some really great frugal meals that my family will love.
Feel free to leave me comments with suggestions or links! I could use some help.
Check out the other menus on Menu Planning Monday at Organizing Junkie!
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Boys Being Sweet, Sweet Peas and More
Shopping for a Video Camera
So we went to shopping.com to find what we wanted! We were able to search for the camera we were interested in and compare prices and features right on one site. Very convenient. We still don't have the camera.... but we will have it soon! We know what we want and we are pretty sure that we know which camera it will be.
Click below to go to their site and start finding what you want!
garden
You can find anything from electronics to garden products to clothing and jewelry. Actually.... I am about to go search for some new memory for a laptop I was given......
Does anyone have any words of wisdom on buying a Digital Video Camera? Before we shell out the $$$$$??? LOL
Doing OK
You can check out my CVS stardom over at the new blog. I am planning to get that site set up as a paying blog and try to keep this one mostly personal. I need a place to vent and share and just be me.
I will be getting back to the questions that I still have to answer either later today or tomorrow. I have some great ones still to go! LOL
Thank you to everyone for your comments on the whole HBP issue. I am going to get through this with flying colors. I am only 33. This is easily handled with diet and exercise if I actually do what I need to do!!
Catch y'all later!
CVS Deals 5/18-5/24
Venus Embrace Razor - 9.99
Herbal Essence Conditioner - 5.99
Schick Disposable Razors - 6.99
Schick Disposable Razors - 3.49 (50% off)
Licorice Candy - 2.79
Total before coupons = 29.25
There were problems with my 3/15 CVS coupon and it would not take it! Wahhhh!
Used:
1/1 Herbal Essence coupon
4/1 Venus coupon
BOGO Schick coupon (cashier entered as 3)
2/1 Schick coupon
11.37 ECB
Total oop= 9.13
got 5 ECB ( 3 from Venus, 2 from HE)
#2
2 Banana Boat Suncare - 9.99 each
Total before coupons = 19.98
Used 3/15 CVS
2 1/1 Banana boat coupons
12 ECBs
Total oop = 3.33
Got 7 ECB (Banana Boat)
#3
3 Crest Toothpaste - 1.99 each
1 Adidas Deodorant - 4.99
2 Purex Detergent BOGO - 5.99
Total before coupons = 16.95
Used 3/15 CVS
3 1/1 Crest coupons
1/2 Purex coupon
Free Adidas 4.99 coupon
Total oop= 5.94
got 7.99 ECB (3 Crest, 4.99 Adidas)
#4
2 Almay Intense i-colors - 6.99 each
1 Oral B Indicator Tooth brush - 1.99
Total before coupons = 15.97
use 3/15 CVS coupon
75/1 Oral B coupon
1/1 Almay coupon
10 ECB
total oop= 1.43
got 11 ECB (10 Almay, 1 tooth brush)
#5
4 12 packs coke - 12.00
2 Purex Detergent BOGO - 5.99
2 Fructis Shampoos - 2.99 each
candy bar filler .79
2 Gatorade BOGO - 1.89
1 Covergirl foundation - 9.49
1 Covergirl Powder
2 Wafer Cookie Tins - 2.99 each
2 Bath Buddies - .99 each
Total before coupons = 51.89
used 10/50 CVS
1/1 Fructis
1/2 Purex
2/2 Johnsons Buddies
2.50/2 Covergirl
Free Powder with foundation (7.79)
5.99 ECB
5 in other coupons that I can't remember
(Could have used more ECBs but am saving them)
total oop= 19.14
got 5 ECB ( 3 Coke, 2 Fructis)
I walked out having spent 38.97 oop and spent 39.36 in ECBs.
I left with 15 ECBs for next week. I got 134.04 in product.
Not quite what I had planned. But with some items not available, I needed to get others to try to make my scenarios work. Some prices were also different. I still think I did pretty good! Next week.... diapers and wipes!
Check out The Centisible Sawyer to see other CVS Superstars! Also check out the Super Savings Saturday linky over at Money Saving Mom! Both of these sites list great deals and link to some of the best and most frugal bloggers on the web!
Friday, May 23, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Doctor Visits
Menu Update and Recipe
Wednesday - Deep Dish Chicago Style Pizza
Sunday - Frito Pie!
I also have had a request for my Tucson Chicken Casserole recipe. I actually don't use a recipe.... the original recipe that I modified came from the Everything Meals For A Month Cookbook. I'll do my best to give you my version.
Chicken Tucson a la Faerie Mom
1 Large Jar Medium Heat Chunky Salsa
2 cans black beans
Diced onion and green pepper
2 Chicken Breasts diced
Hard Corn Tortillas or Chips
Large Bag Shredded Mexican Cheese blend or Cheddar
Sour Cream
2 cans sliced black olives
Spread a thin layer of salsa in the bottom of a baking dish. 9x9
Crunch up corn chips or tortillas and spread on the bottom of the pan. Good layer but not too thick. Cover the salsa.
Season the chicken breast with salt, pepper, cumin and tarragon. (Or use a pack of fajita seasoning.) Brown the chicken in olive oil with the diced chicken and peppers. Drain and return to pan. Add remaining salsa and 1 can of black olives. Heat through and set aside.
Drain black beans and spread evenly over the chips in your pan. Top with chicken mixture. Cover with cheese and place pan in oven. Cook at 375 until cheese is brown and bubbly.
To serve, place corn chips or tortillas on plate, spoon serving of casserole onto chips. Top with dollop of sour cream and some sliced black olives.
Yummy.
I usually try to serve this with a green salad and sometimes corn bread.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Frugal, Cheap or Weird?
Frugal versus cheap?
I am all about saving money. But when it comes to safety I am not going to compromise to save a few bucks. And that goes for other areas as well.
What is frugality? And where is the line drawn between being frugal and being cheap? Is reusing your Ziploc bags frugal? Or just plain weird? Is saving empty peanut butter jars to reuse frugal? Or cheap? Or weird?
What are your thoughts? Where do you draw the line?
*** Just wanted to point out that The Centsible Shopper was in no way advocating this technique. She was just discussing it.
Pay Per Post Rocks!
The really cool thing that I have noticed about PPP so far is that there are resources there on how to be a better blogger and write more entertaining posts. hmmmmm..... I don't know if I can get any more entertaining than some of my sleeping baby posts.... but I am surely going to try! LOL
With all of the money that I end up earning, I think that I will...... save half to help with bills. And use the other half to save up to do things for myself. All women need a spa day every now and then! I could really use a pedicure right about now.....
Anyway, if you are interested in earning money to write blog posts and also learning more about blogging in general... go check out Pay Per Post!
Here is the direct link to get there: drivetraffic
Dreaming and Doing
Laura wants to know:
What is one thing you dream of achieving in life? How do you plan to achieve that dream?
I guess I have two dreams to share. The first dream is that I want to be completely debt free and own my own home. I want to be able to not worry about bill collector's calling and not stress out about my landlord deciding that he does not want to renew a lease. I want to be free of the debt slavery! And if that day ever comes, I will dance for joy!
Right now, we are just trying to make it through the next few years. Actually paying down any debt is a bonus. When the kids are all in school and I can go back to work.... then I will focus on paying off all of the bad debt that has accumulated. And then.... then we can start to really think about a home of our own.
My next big dream is to be a published author. And to make an impact on someone's life as a result of something I have written. It's not enough to get paid for writing... I want my writing to mean something to someone! And at this point, I am trying to get back into the swing of using my creativity for writing instead of fun ways to bathe the baby. Ha. I plan to start using writing prompts to start getting myself back into the habit of writing every day. With the intention of eventually writing a novel. One day.
I will be back later with more..... I need to get the boys down for naps now... wish me luck! LOL
Menu Planning Monday on Tuesday!
Monday - Jambalaya with sausage and chicken breast
Tuesday - Hamburgers, Hotdogs and Fries
Wednesday - Pounded and Fried Chicken Breast, Mashed Potatoes, Corn
Thursday - Pork Chops, Wild Rice, Peas
Friday - Leftovers
Saturday - Chicken Tucson Casserole
Sunday - Grilled Chicken Breast, Grilled potatoes and mixed Veggies
I may try to make some homemade rolls on Wednesday and Sunday. I also plan to make banana bread because I have some ripe bananas that I need to use up.
As far as lunches go, I found a great deal on lunchmeats at Walmart so I have an abundance of that. Plus, we always keep pbutter and marshmallow fluff on hand for the kids!
Breakfasts are usually waffles, cereal, grits or oatmeal. Sometimes scrambled eggs for the kids (DH and I hate eggs!) or pancakes.
That's it! I am looking for some new recipes for chicken breast. Casseroles or crockpot. I have had really bad luck with my crockpot lately. I need some new variations so I can give it a shot again....
Sunday, May 18, 2008
CVS Scenarios 5/18 - 5/24
#1
Venus Embrace Razor - 9.99
Herbal Essence Conditioner - 5.99
use 3/15 CVS coupon
1/1 Herbal Essence coupon
4/1 Venus coupon
= 7.98
use 7 ECB (from last week)
pay .98 plus tax oop
get 5 ECB ( 3 from Venus, 2 from HE)
#2
2 Banana Boat Suncare - 6.79 each
3 Crest Toothpaste - 1.99 each
use 3/15 CVS coupon
2 1/1 Banana Boat coupons
3 1/1 Crest coupons
= 11.55
use 11.37 ECB (from last week)
pay .18 plus tax oop
get 10 ECB (7 BB, 3 Crest)
#3
2 Almay Intense i-colors - 6.99
1 Oral B Indicator Tooth brush - 1.99
use 3/15 CVS coupon
.75/1 Oral B coupon
= 11.97
use 9 ECB (7 from #2 and 2 from #1)
pay 2.97 plus tax oop
get 11 ECB (10 Almay, 1 tooth brush)
#4
KY Yours Mine - 19.99
4 12 packs coke - 12.00
4 Purex Detergent BOGO - 5.99 on 2
2 Fructis Shampoos - 2.99 each
candy bar filler .50
use 10/50 CVS
1/1 Fructis
5/1 KY
2 1/2 Purex
= 32.45
use 17 ECB (3 #1, 3 #2, 10 #3, 1 #3)
pay 15.45 plus tax oop
get 15 ECB (10 KY, 3 Coke, 2 Fructis)
TOTALS-
Total Value = 101.95
Coupons Used = 38.00
ECB spent = 44.37
OOP = 19.58 plus tax
Ending ECB = 15.00
So. There we are. This is what I hope to be doing sometime in the next few days. I will let everyone know how it comes out on Friday as part of the CVS Superstars! Make sure to check back and see if things work out the way I want them to!
My Daughter
Seeing as how she is my daughter you would think that I would not have any questions for her. Ahhh..... but I do, I do. I just have to figure out which ones I am going to ask! LOL
So head on over to The Delusional and ask a teenager questions!
Sunday's Answers
Who is your hero?
#1 - My mom. Of course. If you have not read this post about why my mom rocks, then you should. If you have ready it, then you understand.
#2 - My daughter, Jen, from the delusional. Jen is 14 and going through a lot of the typical teenage angst. However, what makes her my hero is the way that she has never allowed anyone to dictate how she feels about herself. She has never allowed anyone to make her ashamed of herself for how she looks or what she does. She is strong and self confident. You go, girl....
#4 - My fabulous, pretty lady, Michelle. Chelle has a blog here. She makes me smile every time I think about her. Chelle is always true to herself. She never compromises who she is or what she believes in. She has dealt with a lot of heartache and grief in her life. And she is still a beautiful soul and a sexy lady. She is always there for her friends and family, no matter what else is going on in her life. She rocks.
Me and Chelle. Chelle on the right, me on the left!
And one last question for today.... my mother asks:
Are you ever going to try to gather together all you wonderful poetry and send it off to a publisher?
Honestly? Probably not. Poetry is not a big seller as far as books go. I may send some in to contests, etc. But, if I ever try to get something published it would be a story or book. If I ever get anything written. Thanks for the vote of confidence mom. But...... the poetry gets published here on the blog and thats probably all that will happen with it....
OK. I think that is it for questions today. I have several more and will try to get to them int he next few days. I am saving some of the harder ones for last since I need to think about them some more! LOL
Hope everyone has a relaxing Sunday.
Coupons!
Question for anyone reading this.... do you receive the paper at your home or do you purchase one at the store when you want one? I am trying to decide what is more frugal for me....
CVS Deals 5/11 - 5/17
Hawaiian Tropic Tan Oil
Hawaiian Tropic Sunblock
3 Glade Sprays
Cover Girl Whipped Foundation
Cover Girl Powder
8 Hershey's Bars assorted
2 Snickers Bars
2 Garnier Nutritioniste Towelettes
1 Garnier Nut. Eye Cream
1 20 oz Pepsi
1 bag Licorice candy
3 boxes CVS allergy pills
Total value = $93.46
T otal oop spent = $23.96
Total ECBs earned = 38.37
I spent some ECBs so:
Total ECBs went home with = 18.37
In just a bit I will post my scenarios for this next week.... and next time I post my deals, they will be more detailed!
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Menu Planning
CVS Last Minute Trip
Frugal Flights of Fancy
The Frugal Faerie
Now, I can keep this blog for updates on the kids, poetry and the crazy thoughts that run through my head.
Aren't you lucky?
Welcome to the Frugal Faerie!
Feel free to comment and ask questions at any time! I love comments and I love making new friends in the bloggy world....
I am not planning to move all of my frugal posts from the other blog over here. I may link to them occasionally or I may end up putting a link to specific ones on my side bar. We'll see!
For those who do not know me yet, I am a SAHM to three and live in Southern MS. I relocated here from FL about 2 1/2 years ago. My DH is a chef and we struggle to make it on one income while raising three kids. My children are: The Girl who is 14 and has her own blog here, The Boy who is 2 1/2 and The Baby who is 13 months. My boys are generally referred to as the Wingmen of Mayhem or WOMs.
I decided, when I became a SAHM long term, that I needed a job. A job for me to make me feel that I am contributing to the financial well being of my family. Since working outside of the home was out and the jobs you can get working at home are not something i could see myself doing.... I decided that my "job" is to make my husband's paycheck stretch as far as it can. To keep us from spending money on "junk" that we do not need and to keep from spending more than we need to on the things that we must buy.
To that end, I have embraced frugality and all that it entails.
And now you get to read about it. Aren't you lucky?? LOL
Friday, May 16, 2008
Need A New Dye Job
My middle child is .... difficult. He has a speech delay and some behavioral issues. He also has sleep problems and night terrors. You can read more about any of this here and here. When we had the new baby I really expected major issues of jealousy. But he was wonderful! He rarely acted jealous and he seemed to really love and enjoy his brother.
Fast forward to about a month ago.... three weeks ago. Ever since the baby quit nursing, The Boy has been having fits about his brother being on me. I don't know if he has all of a sudden decided that he is not a "baby" anymore and so he is a rival now... or if it is just because he is walking and climbing and playing more now so seems like a "threat" to the Boy. Who knows what goes through their heads? Certainly not me! There has been a lot of shoving and pulling and fighting over moms lap and basic bickering for the last little bit. I do my best to keep them from fighting too bad and accept that boys will be boys. The Baby is an instigator and will start a fight just to get his brother in trouble. I am not kidding. I had to institute a rule that if either one of them starts crying, they both get punished.
So, today I am standing int he kitchen at the bar, clipping coupons, blah blah blah. The boys are in the living room about 20 feet from me, playing. I hear this weird gurgling noise and look up.
The Boy had a plastic bag wrapped around the Baby's neck and was trying to strangle him. The Baby was hitting him and trying to get away.
I hollered and started to run in there. The Boy dropped the bag and ran. he knew he was in trouble. he knew he had done something wrong.
The Baby was fine. He was coughing and choking but seemed fine. I picked him up and checked him over closely and he calmed down really fast and went back to playing. Then I had to go get The Boy.
I was so upset that I was shaking. I was sooooo ANGRY with him. I could not trust myself to touch him, hardly, because I was scared that I would hurt him. I picked him up and made him look at his brother and told him what he had done wrong. Then I took him back to his bedroom, put him in the bed, told him not to move until i came and got him, shut the door, picked up the baby, cried, called my mom and smoked a cigarette.
When I went in to get the Boy a little bit later he was crying hysterically. I got him calmed down and told him he needed to hug his brother and tell him he was sorry for hurting him before he could come out of his room. It took me ten minutes of talking to him to get him to go hug his brother. Then they seemed OK and we went back to playing. With mommy watching them a lot closer.
Throughout the rest of the day today I witnessed, stopped and punished the following:
The Boy sitting on his brother's back - 3 times
The Boy standing on his brother - once
The Boy kicking his brother - 4 times
The Boy pushing his brother off of the couch - once
The Boy hitting his brother with a keyboard - once
The Boy shoving, hitting and otherwise injuring his brother in the process of taking away any toy the Baby might have been trying to play with - at least 10 times
The Boy pushing his brother off of my lap and taking his place - every damn time I picked up the baby
And it goes on and on.
Obviously, this is a jealousy issue. And also a boy thing. And maybe a little bit of just being 2. And partly a result of his sleep issues/ over tiredness.
But what can I do? I am actually really scared to leave them in a room together now without me being right there. If they had been in their bedroom this morning I would never have known what happened and who KNOWS what would have happened?
Any suggestions on how to defuse the jealousy? When The Boy starts 3 year old pre-k in August, I have a feeling it will get much better. But until then..... I am at my wit's end with these boys. I think I need to go re-dye my hair.... about a million gray hairs popped into being today....
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Answers Once Again
Fave author? I don't think I've asked before BUT I distinctly remember ALL the 1000s of books you were going to organize. How did that turn out?
How about nicknames? Past or present or even what nickname you would give yourself and why...
Alright.... No. I have not organized the library yet. I am giving myself until the end of Summer to get it done. It is a major undertaking int he midst of all of the other things I am trying to accomplish. Although, every time I walk in there, my eye starts to twitch. It bugs me so bad to have the books all over the place that I may end up locking myself in there one day and just not coming out until I am done. Really.
Favorite author? You've got to be kidding me. Ummmm.... well, see.... the thing is that I love SO MANY authors and books that picking just one may be impossible. I really really really love most books. ummm..... OK. I think my favorite author would be one that I read again and again and again. One whose books I replace periodically as I read them to rags. So, amongst the many authors I love, Robert Heinlein would have to be my favorite.
I own and have read most of his many books. I have had to replace my copies of Time Enough For Love, Stranger In A Strange Land, Beyond The Sunset and The Cat Who Could Walk Through Walls at least twice. I have a burning NEED to own every single book or short story that the man ever wrote. Granted, most of his work is dated. That's because most of it was written in the 50s - 70s. But, his IDEAS are not dated. His words are powerful. His philosophy is fresh and fantastic. All of his stories are entertaining and fun. Stranger in a Strange Land is one of the only ones that seems to really "preach" or "teach". I reread that book once every six months. And I read most of the other ones that I own once a year or so.
Here are some of my fave quotes from some of his books:
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Sex should be friendly. Otherwise stick to mechanical toys; its more sanitary.
The three-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots.
Yield to temptation; it may not pass your way again.
Most people can't think, most of the remainder won't think, the small fraction who do think mostly can't do it very well.
If you don't like yourself, you can't like other people.
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity.
Of all the strange "crimes" that human beings have legislated out of nothing, "blasphemy" is the most amazing, with "obscenity" and "indecent exposure" fighting it out for second and third place.
Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity.
Sin lies only in hurting others unnecessarily. All other “sins” are invented nonsense.
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.
Courage is the complement of fear. A man who is fearless cannot be courageous. (He is also a fool.)
What this world needs more of is loving: sweaty, friendly and unashamed.
A man does not insist on physical beauty in a woman who builds up his morale. After a while he realizes that she is beautiful--he just hadn't noticed it at first.
Men are more sentimental than women. It blurs their thinking.
May you live as long as you wish, and love as long as you live.
I've found out why people laugh. They laugh because it hurts... because it's the only thing that'll make it stop hurting.
Growing closer is a goodness.
Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules.
As far as nicknames go.... I was called Grace when I was young, because I had none. I don't really think I have had any other nicknames. At least not that I can think of off the top of my head. My friend Chelle calls me her Hot Mama. Does that count? LOL DH calls me his "XXX Psycopath" (from a song). Oh yeah!! My friend in HS called me Piglet. No idea why. Other than the fact that I called her Pooh.....
Nicknames have never been a big thing for me. I am Tracy. And that is enough for me.
More answers tomorrow!
Another Video and Lyrics For You
"Not A Pretty Girl"
I am not a pretty girl
that is not what I do
I ain't no damsel in distess
and I don't need to be rescued
so put me down punk
maybe you'd prefer a maiden fair
isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere
I am not an angry girl
but it seems like I've got everyone fooled
every time I say something they find hard to hear
they chalk it up to my anger
and never to their own fear
and imagine you're a girl
just trying to finally come clean
knowing full well they'd prefer you
were dirty and smiling
and I am sorry
I am not a maiden fair
and I am not a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere
and generally my generation
wouldn't be caught dead working for the man
and generally I agree with them
trouble is you gotta have youself an alternate plan
and I have earned my disillusionment
I have been working all of my life
and I am a patriot
I have been fighting the good fight
and what if there are no damsels in distress
what if I knew that and I called your bluff?
don't you think every kitten figures out how to get down
whether or not you ever show up
I am not a pretty girl
I don't want to be a pretty girl
no I want to be more than a pretty girl
Answer #2
I have struggled with this one. Most of the songs that I really love just don't describe me. And most of the songs that describe me, at least in part, I really don't like. I think if I took several more days maybe I could come up with something a little more fitting. But, I like this song and it fits. I think it describes me fairly well. Not ENTIRELY, though. For it to describe me entirely it would have to be written by me.... and even then.... hey, I don't know everything about myself as it is! LOL LOL
So.... here it is. The lyrics are below the video. Remember to turn off the music on the sidebar.
"32 Flavors"
Ani DiFranco
Squint your eyes and look closer
I'm not between you and your ambition
I am a poster girl with no poster
I am thirty-two flavors and then some
And I'm beyond your peripheral vision
So you might want to turn your head
Cause someday you're going to get hungry
And eat most of the words you just said
Both my parents taught me about good will
And I have done well by their names
Just the kindness I've lavished on strangers
Is more than I can explain
Still there's many who've turned out their porch lights
Just so I would think they were not home
And hid in the dark of their windows
Til I'd passed and left them alone
And god help you if you are an ugly girl
Course too pretty is also your doom
Cause everyone harbors a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room
And god help you if you are a Phoenix
And you dare to rise up from the ash
A thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy
While you are just flying back
I'm not trying to give my life meaning
By demeaning you
And I would like to state for the record
I did everything that I could do
I'm not saying that I'm a saint
I just don't want to live that way
No, I will never be a saint
But I will always say
Squint your eyes and look closer
I'm not between you and your ambition
I am a poster girl with no poster
I am thirty-two flavors and then some
And I'm beyond your peripheral vision
So you might want to turn your head
Cause someday you might find you're starving
And eating all of the words you said
So... what do you think? Fitting or not??
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Answer # 1 and..... Discovery
I have children. So, the majority of the time, my television is tuned in to Nick Jr. And sometimes, I just leave it on Nick all day. We watch I Carly and Drake & Josh cause the teenager likes them. (I do too actually, they are cute shows) And at night they play shows like George Lopez and Fresh Prince. So, there are days I never change the channel. Then, there are the days that I am so tired of cartoons and kid shows that i just may scream. And then I watch....
Are you ready for this?
I watch reality TV. Yes, I admit to it. I like to watch things like Project Runway, Top Chef and Clean House. I also really giggled like mad at Tila Tequila and Rock of Love. Stupidity at it's finest, there. I like to watch Jon and Kate plus 8 just so that I remember things could always be worse.
I enjoy watching stupid shows, usually, because then my brain is not really engaged. I can write, clip coupons, plan menus, clean house, cross stitch, try to learn to knit, read a book, exercise, sort toys, sew, fold laundry or sleep and I haven't missed a thing.
Except Project Runway. I must watch Project Runway when the newest season comes on without any interruptions. I cannot miss it. I am totally addicted. I love Tim Gun. He is bad ass.
If I am actually wanting to WATCH something then I have the option of any DVD I feel like watching. We own.... I don't know how many. See these pictures? Yeah. These are all DVDs and some VHS. The spindle and the black cases are all full of burned DVDs. And there are probably at least another 100 either in the office or in the girl's room.
Those are the black cases of burned DVDs there below the cabinet with doors. Inside the cabinet are ou r "adult" movies. I need to get a lock on that before the girl gets any older....
We are in the process of entering all of these movies into a database so that I can have some clue as to what we have. I like to organize them alphabetically. I also would like to be able to do a search of the database for movies starring.... say.... Brad Pitt and get every one that we own listed. Or, search by genre. We also have many different TV shows on DVD. Star Trek, Gilmore Girls, Six Feet Under, Firefly, Millennium, X-Files..... and we watch them periodically!
So, there you go! That is what I watch on TV. Not much and then a whole lot! LOL We are definitely movie people. And we are all about instant gratification. Why go rent a movie when you can just own it??? LOL
On another note, yesterday the boy and I were playing outside. He made a discovery and I thought that I would share it with you! Here he is, just being all boy.
And also, quite excited to see....
A "buh-FLY... FLY" or, as you can see, a moth. He spent quite a long time checking this guy out.
I love watching him discover how beautiful the world can be.....
More answers at a later time.... Must think.....
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
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Anyway, I am desperately non creative today. Please help me!
Today I am opening the floor to all of you. Leave me a comment or two and ask me anything you want to know! Questions deserve answers and I will answer every one.....
What are you waiting for? You know there is something you have been desperately wanting to know about me...... so hop to it! LOL